The Table Church DC

Content note: this sermon discusses sexual harm, sex work, and a Bible verse that has been used against LGBTQ people. Purity culture taught that bodies matter because they can be ruined. In 1 Corinthians 6, Paul says bodies matter because God raises them, lives in them, and has bought them. Pastor Anthony walks through the whole chapter: siblings with money dragging each other into court, a list of the unjust that ends with "this is what some of y'all used to be," and men who think they can buy a body. Along the way he looks at how the word "homosexual" first entered an English Bible in 1946, what the Greek words malakoi and arsenokoitai can and can't tell us, and why Paul confronts the buyer and never blames the woman. The market says everybody has a price. God walked into the market too, and what God has bought, nobody else gets to own. Part two of a two-part Hot Takes conversation on 1 Corinthians 5 and 6. If this sermon touches your story: DC Rape Crisis Center, 24/7: (202) 333-7273 The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386, or text START to 678-678 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988 To report misconduct at The Table Church, use the link at the bottom of thetablechurch.org. Reports go to all the elders at once, bypassing Pastors Anthony and Tonetta.

Content note: this episode includes frank discussion of sexual harm.

Churches have a reputation for policing everyone else's behavior while ignoring the harm happening inside their own walls. In 1 Corinthians 5, Paul confronts a community that looked the other way while a well-connected man exploited a woman who never gets a voice in the story. Then he asks a surprising question: what business do we have judging outsiders at all?

Pastor Anthony unpacks what the word usually translated "sexual immorality" actually meant. Hint: it's about exploitation and power, not a list of rules. He also explores why Paul's first instruction was to grieve, and how he reworked an ancient punishment toward accountability and restoration rather than revenge.

This is part one of a two-part conversation in our Hot Takes series

We live in an image-is-everything world. Influencers coach us on how to speak, how to present, and how to pitch ourselves to get ahead. Even in communities that prize curiosity and good questions, it's easy to trade the search for truth for the comfort of airtight answers.

In this week of Hot Takes, our series on 1 Corinthians, Pastor Tonetta Landis-Aina takes on a letter many of us have complicated feelings about. She draws on The Great Gatsby, a mocking piece of ancient Roman graffiti, and the wisdom of Howard Thurman's grandmother. Along the way she explores why the people the world overlooks are often the ones best equipped to teach us, and why excellent answers can't get us to excellent love.

Listen for permission to stop performing, and share it with someone who's tired of trying to be what everyone else wants.

Remember group projects? There was the partner who vanished, the one who did all the work, and the crush that made everything complicated. Community can feel the same way: a room full of people you didn't pick and can't control. So what do you do when belonging gets messy?

Kicking off our fall series Hot Takes, Tonetta opens Paul's first letter to the church in Corinth. That was a small, status-conscious community already at odds with itself. Before Paul corrects anyone, he says thank you. This message explores why grace and gratitude, not flawless performance, are what actually hold people together. It also shares how two frustrating grad school partners turned into some of life's most unexpected gifts.

Listen if you've ever wanted to quit a group, or a church. Then ask yourself: who's someone you need to thank this week?

Ever had a big, dramatic moment — a decision, a promise, a "this changes everything" instant — that didn't actually change much? Pastor Tonetta opens with a story about the most intense altar call of her life, and what her body remembers isn't the music, it's the fear of being surrounded and pressured to prove she'd "been saved."

From there, she asks a harder question: what if real commitment was never supposed to be one moment at all? Drawing on two odd parables about a half-built tower and a losing war, she unpacks why skipping the cost of change sets people up to fail — and why walking away from manipulative, high-control tactics isn't rebellion, it's clarity.

If you've ever been burned by pressure-tactic religion, or you're just skeptical of anything sold as instantly life-changing, this one's for you.

Every community has a guest list — and every guest list has an unspoken logic about who makes the cut. Tochi digs into why we default to inviting people who already look, think, and live like us, and what gets lost when we do.

Using Encanto's "We don't talk about Bruno" and Janelle Monáe's Dirty Computer as entry points, Tochi traces a throughline: families, institutions, and even religious spaces have a habit of erasing whoever makes them uncomfortable. Then he turns to a 2,000-year-old story Jesus told about a dinner party that gets radically reorganized — not around status, but around who's been left out. The question underneath it all: what would it take to actually widen the circle, instead of just saying we want to?

If you've ever felt like the "difficult" one in a room, this one's for you.

Why do so many of us secretly believe there are things we're not allowed to want — a school, a job, a kind of joy — because of who we are? Antonio unpacks how internalized limits get planted early, and how they quietly run our lives long after we've "made it."

Drawing on his own story — from a debate opponent who couldn't picture him in college, to strangers who couldn't picture him as a lawyer — Antonio traces a different way of seeing, one shaped by time spent in Malawi and by a 2,000-year-old story about a woman searching for a lost coin. It's not a pep talk. It's a case for why the search itself matters, even when you don't get back exactly what you lost.

If you've ever wondered who gets to decide what's possible for you, this one's worth 25 minutes of your time.

Remember 2020? The marches, the black squares, the sense that everything was about to change? Six years later, a lot of that momentum has quietly faded back into business as usual. This episode sits with an uncomfortable question: what's the real difference between what we say we believe and what we actually do with our time, our bodies, our money?

Pastor Tonetta draws on an unexpected pairing — a 2,000-year-old story and the imaginative world-building of Afrofuturism — to explore why the people with the smoothest answers aren't always the ones doing the real work, and why lasting change looks less like a perfectly worded post and more like showing up, again and again, even when no one's watching.